Moms, don't we take them for granted?

Okay,
so last night, i was hanging out with my friends at Bangsar, I had dropped my mom at a party, and was waiting at bangsar to pick her up after.

She was done at eleven, and I went to pick her up.

Anyways, I picked her up, and both my sis and dad had called and both hadn't had dinner and were depending on my mom for food.

At that moment, I realised how inconsiderate of them!

Both knew that my mom was going out (which is very rare) and yet both were depending on food for her when they were both out!

There are many sides to this.

One hand hand, children and husbands are generally dependent on moms/wife cos it's 'normal'

but i think it's not fair.

but to a mom, it makes her feel wanted/needed

and sometimes i think mom's don't mind doing it. cos they love their children/husband. so they do it out of love, thus, it's not a chore.

but we as children/husband shouldn't also be overly dependent on them and take advantage of them.

So i think, mom's should go about doing their mommy stuff... but once in a while, put a firm foot on the floor and tell the children/husbands to go get whatever they want themselves.

force them to be independent now and then.

Dinner Last night was thanks to Sarvanna bhavan.... pheww